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Structure, Nurture & Boundaries in Nutrition

Carine uses this framework in all the work she does with infants, children, teens and families. She acts as nutrition educator, guide and supporter, providing resources and strategic tools. She believes that food, feeding, eating and nutrition not only connect families in relationship, and a child or teen to their body, but also biologically via interactions between the brain and the body.

Exploring Nutritional Structure

Structure takes a close look at meeting nutritional needs, food & energy intake, key nutrients as well as physical growth and activity. In addition, the physical sensations, difficulties or symptoms via the digestive tract and gut microbiota, and also the body’s rhythms and cycles.

This information is generally obtained during a first appointment, as part of the nutritional assessment. For teens in particular, there is often further work to explore, as they work through the inevitable re-structuring towards making their own choices and taking ownership of their bodies.

Understanding the Essence of Nurture

Nurture is not only the act of providing nourishment; it is also caring, noticing, acknowledging, encouraging and reassuring. Most evident in the interactions we have as parents, including the timing, tone and quality of those interactions.

Nurturing Tone

A nurturing tone helps when children are behaving in ways that are worrying or triggering – helping to reduce tension and strain and fostering good relationships. Nurture is about learning to observe and respond rather than reacting without thinking.

Calm & Attentive

Finding ways to be calm and attentive will assist parents in managing the moment, creating just enough space to choose how to respond. Longer-term it provides a valuable modelling, promoting emotional stability and self-regulation for children.

Positive Behaviors

A nurturing tone helps when children are behaving in ways that are worrying or triggering – helping to reduce tension and strain and foster good relationships. Nurture is about learning to observe and respond rather than reacting without thinking.

Positive Encouragement

Nurture is using tools like positive reinforcement or effective praise, naming, recognising and rewarding what children are doing well. Promoting safe agency for teens whilst letting them know you are noticing and giving encouragement.

The Importance of Boundaries

Boundaries are about keeping safe and protected and are helpful with children of all ages. And parents! They help us define limits, what’s negotiable, what’s non-negotiable. Boundaries can help to bring some clarity.

Necessary also for creating the right conditions to work on making dietary change, boundaries can be when we say yes or no to something. Individual by nature, boundaries are useful in a variety of ways towards acceptance, respect, negotiation, compromise, tolerance, time out.

Importantly, when modelled calmly by parents, boundaries show children how to self-regulate both with food and other aspects of behaviour.

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